My Amazing Sister (Slice 4 of 31)

This post is a part of the Slice of Life challenge which is hosted on the Two Writing Teachers blog.  The month of March the challenge is to write a blog post a day.

Hyperemesis Gravidarum is the name of the condition that is changing my sister’s life right now.  If you have heard of this condition, then the next words out of your mouth might be, “Isn’t that what Kate Middleton had to go to the hospital for?”  The answer is yes.  My sister is suffering from extreme nausea during her pregnancy.  Did she try ginger? You might ask.  Yes. Did she take Zofran? Did she eat soda crackers? Did she try peppermint? Yes, yes, and yes.  My poor sister has been nauseous since September when she found out she was pregnant.  She got exactly 2 days to enjoy the news and has been miserable ever since.

By December she was feeling sick but still able to wrestle down some food.  In February, she had to take medical leave because in her state she just wasn’t able to do the twelve hour shifts that her first year of residency asked of her.  She has had to defer her spot at Harvard for her neurology residency until two years from now because next year she will be making up her time off.  Now, she has started an IV line at home along with a Zofran pump.  They are having to pay an exorbitant amount of money for home health care and she is still miserable.  The good news is that the baby seems to be growing well and everything seems healthy.  However, there is no relief in sight for my poor sister.  There is absolutely nothing that the doctors can do to relieve her nausea and she has to continue to try to get food down because she needs the nutrients and so does that little baby.

I am so excited to meet my little niece in May and I know her parents will love her also.  I just wish my sister didn’t have this to deal with throughout the pregnancy.  I had never heard of this condition before but I will know more than I wanted to about it from now on.  If you ever have a friend suffering from this, know that they will need your support and comfort.  They may not be able to talk on the phone, but they will appreciate messages and e-mails.  I know that my sister and I have had much more contact in the last month or so because she needs someone to talk to.  Being at home and unable to move around very much can get quite boring.  I have gotten so I look forward to the message I know is waiting for me most mornings.

What I am most impressed with is my sister’s amazing resilience.  She is going through something that is unimaginable for most of us and she is never getting any relief from that nausea.  Does she get down every once in awhile and express that frustration? Absolutely.  However, she manages to keep finding a bright side and to look forward to the precious baby that will come from all of this.  She is strong and beautiful and I am so lucky to have a wonderful woman like this in my life.

It’s Monday! What are you reading? 3/4

This weekly meme is hosted by the lovely ladies at Teach Mentor Texts.  Head over there for more great ideas of kid literature and young adult books to add to your TBR.

I had a great reading week this week. It helped a lot that I had the day off on Monday for mid-winter break and then ended up with a snow day on Wednesday.  This reader was a happy camper this week!

Books I Finished This Week:

I absolutely LOVED Grave Mercy by Robin LaFevers.  I thought that the author did a fantastic job of blending mystery, fantasy, and adventure in this story.  The premise of the book is so creative and I found myself quickly swept up in the narrative and enchanted by the story.  I cannot wait for the second book in this series.

I finally finished listening to The Selection by Kiera Cass this week.  I really enjoyed this story and I like the narrator on the audiobook as well.  It was a great book to listen to.  I will be interested to see how this story plays out in the next books.  I am not a huge fan of the love triangle that seems to show up in many of these YA books, but I definitely am intrigued by this one.  It seems impossible for things to work out for everyone and that tension is what will keep me coming back for more.

The book Shooter by Walter Dean Myers is another great book by this outstanding author.  It is written as a series of transcripts from interviews after a school shooting has taken place.  Through the interviews, the reader meets the friends of the shooter and begins to put together what happened.  I was intrigued by the format of the book.  The case file tells the story and gives the reader a way to gain a little distance from the horror of the event, but also gives the reader a glimpse of many different points of view and reactions to the shooting.  Like his other books, this one is easy to read but compelling and will be of interest to my 8th grade readers.

I was thrilled when I got approved on NetGalley for Hide and Seek by Kate Messner.  I will be writing a more thorough review of this one closer to the release date.  This is a great mystery that will appeal to a lot of kids.  It was really fun reading about all the wildlife that the kids encountered in the rain forest and learning a little more about the Silver Jaguar Society.  I will be buying this for my classroom when it comes out for sure.

Invincible Microbe by Jim Murphy and Alison Blank is a fascinating read.  I did not know very much about Tuberculosis other than the fact that it used to be called consumption and it shows up quite often in 19th century novels.  I also knew that people who have TB usually end up coughing up blood.  I have to admit, I never exactly knew what Sanatoriums were.  I knew they were like clinics, but found out by reading this book that there was much more to it.  This book really grabbed my attention and kept me reading.  I would highly recommend this book to teens and adults.  It is an excellent example of compelling nonfiction and will definitely be an asset to my classroom library.

Books I am Currently Reading:

I started Prodigy this week and will be finished with it very soon because it is so compelling.  I also am in the middle of Finnikin of the Rock which I am enjoying very much.  I started listening to The Night Circus and am enjoying both the story and the incredible narrator on the audiobook.  I actually got this audiobook because I wanted to read this book and then read Jen Vincent’s post about her favorite narrators.  She is so right about Jim Dale as a narrator.

Books I will read this week:

Aside from finishing the two books I have already started, I am not sure how much reading I will get done this week.  I have report cards due on Friday and mountains of papers to get through before then.  I also am participating in the Slice of Life blog challenge so some of my reading time will be dedicated to writing and reading other blog posts.  If I do have time, I would like to get to Sunrise Over Fallujah this week.  For nonfiction I will read The Great Fire this week.  I also think I would like to get to a Printz book or two to work on my nerdprintz challenge so I might pick up Hard Love or Airborn.

Challenges and Memories (Slice of Life 3 of 31)

This post is a part of the Slice of Life challenge which is hosted on the Two Writing Teachers blog.  The month of March the challenge is to write a blog post a day.

If you have ever lost someone close to you, you know that the grief can hit in odd places and come out of nowhere from a reaction to something in your world.  No matter how many years have passed, there are things that happen which slap you in the face with memories of a loved one who has passed and cause the waterworks to start.  There are also those moments that make you pause and smile, thinking about a good memory.

In the past few days, I have found myself thinking a lot about my grandmother.  It was triggered by my choice in books to read this week.  I picked up Invincible Microbe: Tuberculosis and the Never-Ending Search for the Cure and was fascinated by the information I read.  This book made me think about my grandmother because her mother contracted TB and was taken to a sanatorium when she was a young girl.  I found myself really imagining what that must have been like for a young girl to lose her mother in this way.  Her mother did not die for a few years after leaving home, but also never came home.  What struck me most and really made me pause while reading was the idea that the medicine for a disease often comes too late for many people.  I have often lamented the fact that the advances in the treatment of heart disease came too late for my father to be saved.  Did my grandmother feel the same way as they found cures for TB during her lifetime?  Did she feel it was unfair that her mother was taken from her?  I wish I had talked more to her about this.

My grandmother was always the person I went to when I had something I needed to talk about.  She was able to listen in a way that made me feel special and loved.  When my father had his first heart attack, I was 9 and he was only 37.  He had a massive heart attack and had to have a pacemaker from then on.  I remember being able to talk to my grandmother about all the things I couldn’t tell my parents.  I felt so angry.  It was so unfair that this had to happen to my dad and that I had to change everything because of it.  I talked through it with Grandma.  Now, as an adult, I realize that this must have been a difficult conversational theme for her.  She must have been able to empathize in a real way with my feelings because she might have had some of them herself.  I miss my grandmother every day.

Of course, after spending some time remembering my grandmother, I was feeling a bit nostalgic.  And then, I watched an old episode of How I Met Your Mother last night.  At the end, Marshall is told that his father had a heart attack and died.  And just like that, I was immersed in my own grief over my father’s death.  Watching a sitcom is supposed to be uplifting, right?  My father passed away over twenty years ago, but there are still many moments that slap me in the face and surprise me.  Luckily, since it has been so many years, that feeling doesn’t stay with me for too long.

Today I find myself feeling nostalgic and remembering two amazing people.  Here’s to the marathon Monopoly games with my grandma that lasted all weekend.  Here’s to long car rides with the sunroof open, windows down, and Peter, Paul, and Mary blasting on the radio with my dad.  Here’s to living my life to make each of them proud and loving their memories with joy not sadness.  

This is just to say… (Slice of Life 2)

This post is a part of the Slice of Life challenge which is hosted on the Two Writing Teachers blog.  The month of March the challenge is to write a blog post a day.

    Lately I have been tossing around the idea of having my students write false apology poems.  I ordered Forgive Me, I Meant to do It by Gail Carson Levine and absolutely love that book for introducing this type of poem.  Today, I thought I would try my hand at copying the form of the famous William Carlos Williams poem.  
This first one is inspired by a recent episode with my dog:
This is Just to Say
I have destroyed 
your new card
from
the bank
you were probably 
planning to use
that card 
in the near future
Forgive me
the plastic smelled good
and so fun
to chew
And another one inspired by my daily challenges (middle school mindsets):
This is Just to Say
I have decided
not to 
complete 
any work
You probably wanted
to teach me
something
amazing
Forgive me
no offense
but your class 
is boring
I didn’t mean for that last one to come out so negative.  I absolutely do not believe that students are lazy.  I just often hear the “boring” excuse which is middle school language for challenge that they are resistant to try.  Many of my students are really entrenched in the fixed mindset way of looking at learning and this causes challenges.  We are working on changing to growth mindsets.  
One more that speaks to my book nerdiness:
This is Just to Say
I have read 
all afternoon
and ignored
my chores
You wanted
me to clean
the house 
and cook dinner
Forgive me
this book 
is too exciting
to put down
There you have a few false apologies.  I enjoyed trying the different perspectives.  I think when I do this with my students I will try to make sure they do one poem that personifies something.  It was most fun writing from my dog’s point of view.  Happy Saturday!

Lessons from a Dryer (Slice of Life 1)

Today I am joining the Slice of Life challenge which is hosted on the Two Writing Teachers blog.  The month of March the challenge is to write a blog post a day.

Yesterday, our new dryer arrived.  The old one had begun screeching and grunting and making very odd noises.  Since the dryer was one that had been here when we bought the house, and it was probably about twenty years old, we decided to go buy a new one rather than trying to repair it.

When my husband and I went to Home Depot, we were determined to just buy a regular dryer without bells and whistles.  That determination quickly diminished with the options in front of us.  We did pick out a dryer that was more economical than others, but our eyes were drawn to this one and we got some bells and whistles.

It is amazing how exciting new appliances can be (yes I am even nerdy about this).  I rushed home yesterday to see the new dryer.  My husband had already started doing laundry and I saw that the load was finished drying so I opened up the dryer to take out the clothes, and it started singing.  Yes, my new dryer plays music when it is opened after the cycle has finished.  How cool is that?  It certainly made me smile.  And it made me think about how even the smallest surprise can lighten your mood.

Although I won’t be singing to anyone today, perhaps I can spread the cheer with a few small surprises for those people around me that I care about.  All it takes is an unexpected good turn to put a spring in your step and a smile on your face.  Thank you to my new dryer for this reminder.

Review: Strands of Bronze and Gold

Title: Strands of Bronze and Gold
Author: Jane Nickerson

Publication: March 12, 2013

Source: NetGalley

Publisher Summary:

A sweeping Gothic thriller based on the spine-chilling “Bluebeard” fairytale

17-year-old Sophia Petheram has been sheltered by her doting family all her life, until the day her father dies. It’s 1855, and with no money and few options, she goes to live with her guardian, the mysterious Bernard de Cressac, at the astonishingly lavish Wyndriven Abbey in Mississippi.

Sophie has always longed for a comfortable life, and she finds herself both attracted to and shocked by the charm and easy manners of her overgenerous guardian. But as she begins to piece together the mystery of his past, it’s as if thread by thread, a silken net is woven around her. And when she begins glimpsing the ghosts of his former wives (all with hair as red as her own) in the forgotten corners and dark hallways of the Abbey, Sophie knows she’s in de Cressac’s trap.
   
With enchanting romance, chilling suspense, and dashes of the supernatural, Strands of Bronze and Gold is a compulsively-readable debut.

My Thoughts:  I cannot begin to tell you how much I enjoyed Strands of Bronze and Gold by Jane Nickerson.  Let me just say that I LOVE 19th century literature…I gobbled up the Romantic novels of that period when I was younger.  Gothic novels were so popular during this time period in literature and I have read every last one I could get my hands on.  Had I gone on to get a PhD in English, this would have been my focus for research and publication.  Jane Nickerson wrote a book that could fit right in with the classics such as Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights for the Gothic elements included.  This book is a retelling of the Bluebeard fairy tale and is told in such a way that it made me immediately want to dig out my copy of Jane Eyre to reread that classic.  Not everybody is going to love this book as much as I did, nor will everyone appreciate the gothic elements as I did when reading, but I think this author deserves recognition for what had to be a very intentional decision to write using these elements.  I will absolutely be buying this one when it comes out and sharing it with everyone I know.

What I really appreciated about this book is how quickly I empathized with Sophie, and how desperate her situation became.  It would not be difficult to isolate someone like this even today if someone wanted to hold them captive.  The mind games that Bernard de Cressac plays throughout the book are stunning.  I have to admit that I am not familiar with the fairy tale so I am unsure about which details the author might have embellished, but this book is fabulous and not to be missed!

I would recommend this one to teens and adults alike, but especially to fans of Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights, and other Gothic classics.

5 out of 5 Stars

Review: The Runaway King

Title: The Runaway King
Author: Jennifer Nielsen

Publication: March 1, 2013
Source: Netgalley ARC
Goodreads Summary:

A kingdom teetering on the brink of destruction. A king gone missing. Who will survive? Find out in the highly anticipated sequel to Jennifer A. Nielsen’s blockbuster THE FALSE PRINCE!

Just weeks after Jaron has taken the throne, an assassination attempt forces him into a deadly situation. Rumors of a coming war are winding their way between the castle walls, and Jaron feels the pressure quietly mounting within Carthya. Soon, it becomes clear that deserting the kingdom may be his only hope of saving it. But the further Jaron is forced to run from his identity, the more he wonders if it is possible to go too far. Will he ever be able to return home again? Or will he have to sacrifice his own life in order to save his kingdom?

The stunning second installment of The Ascendance Trilogy takes readers on a roller-coaster ride of treason and murder, thrills and peril, as they journey with the Runaway King!

My Thoughts:  I have to admit that although I liked The False Prince, I didn’t love it as much as many of the bloggers, teachers, and librarians that I follow.  I think I expected something different and that colored my opinion of the book.  So, when I picked this one up I was expecting to like the story but not to love it.  I was wrong.  I LOVED this one!  I was sucked in immediately by the circumstances that seemed impossible to figure out.  Prince Jaron is a clever and brave character and I loved every second of this one.  It made me want to go back and read The False Prince again, because obviously I missed something in that story.  This one kept me on the edge of my seat throughout the book and I will anxiously await the third book.  There is so much romantic tension (but not too much for the boys) and I am ready to figure out how things will work out for Jaron.  I would highly recommend this one to boys and girls alike…and I know of a few students that are anxiously awaiting our Scholastic order to get their hands on this one!  
Since elephants are my second favorite thing after books, they are helping me with my rating system. 
4 out of 5 stars

It’s Monday! What are you reading? 2/25

This weekly meme is hosted by the lovely ladies at Teach Mentor Texts.  Head over there for more great ideas of kid literature and young adult books to add to your TBR.

Books I Read This Week:

Period 8 by Chris Crutcher was an excellent book.  It combined mystery and realistic fiction in such a seamless way and will definitely appeal to teens.  The author left enough clues that it was pretty easy to figure out some parts of the mystery but left enough intrigue and surprises to keep me wanting more.  I have read Staying Fat for Sarah Barnes but have not read anything else by Chris Crutcher.  I absolutely have to remedy that soon.  A special thanks to Jennifer Fountain who lent me her ARC of this one.  I will have to buy a copy when it comes out later this spring!

Eight Keys by Suzanne LaFleur came in one of those special free packs of books in my Scholastic order.  The cover looked interesting and the story sounded intriguing but I didn’t plan to make this one a priority until one of my students came to school RAVING about it.  My student told me I HAD to read it, so I did.  I was really touched by this story.  The characters in the book were all lovable and I could really connect with Elise, the protagonist. The book is about Elise, who has been raised by her uncle and aunt because her parents both passed away when she was very young.  Her father, who had a terminal disease and knew he was dying, set up eight rooms of memories for her to discover and unlock when she is ready.  Throughout the course of this book, Elise opens the rooms as the keys mysteriously appear for her.  She learns about her parents and is given the treasure of advice from a father who is no longer there.  I wept through this book, not because it was sad but because it was touching (especially since I lost my own father when I was thirteen and was connecting with how amazing it would be to suddenly get a message he had left me).  I wrote more about the book HERE.  I would highly recommend this one to grades 5 and up.

I have to admit that I thought You Gotta BE the Book by Jeffrey Wilhelm would be a more practical book with strategies and lessons to immediately apply in my classroom.  I liked the book and appreciated learning about his teacher research and really thought about my own classroom throughout my reading, but this one was very scholarly and dense compared to many other professional books I have read lately.  I just kept waiting to get to the chapter that would take this research and translate it into strategy ideas for me.  It’s not that there aren’t ideas, they just aren’t really laid out in such a way that I could take those ideas and use them tomorrow.  This is one I would recommend to reading teachers, but maybe it is more of a summer read when you can really take your time and process the ideas.

I cannot believe that this is my whole list.  I think it has to do with the fact that the professional book really took some focused reading on my part.  Also, there was another book I started to read but really didn’t love it so I stopped.  That doesn’t happen often, but it does happen.  I am just glad that I didn’t buy that one.  I might go back to it sometime, but probably not.  There are too many other great books out there!

What I am Currently Reading:

I decided to read Teaching Literacy for LOVE and WISDOM: Being the BOOK and Being the CHANGE by Jeffrey Wilhelm and Bruce Novak because I was intrigued by Wilhelm’s talk at WSRA13.  The book is another one that is full of theory and teacher research, but this time I am ready for it.  I am also about a third of the way through Grave Mercy and a few chapters into Finnikin of the Rock.  I will be finishing The Selection on audiobook soon…it is getting so exciting that I will probably do an extra long workout tomorrow just so I can finish!

What’s Next:

I would like to get The Night Circus on audiobook.  I really want to read that one and have heard that this is a good audio.  I also will read Shooter and Sunrise over Fallujah by Walter Dean Myers.  I want to get those ones to school because I have some students who I think would really like them.  I have Hide and Seek from Netgalley as well and Prodigy is calling my name.  For professional books, I think I will read Opening Minds by Peter Johnston next.  I also have Invincible Microbe from the library and would like to make my way through that one.  I will most likely not get to all of these books but a girl can hope, right?

What are you reading this week?

Review: Eight Keys

Title: Eight Keys
Author: Suzanne LaFleur
Publication: July 2012

My Summary: Elise and her best friend Franklin have always been friends.  They have a blast together and know each other well.  But when Elise has to start middle school with scabs all over her legs, and Franklin reveals to everyone that it was because of a game they were playing, she starts to be embarrassed by her friend.  Then, she starts to have a hard time with the girl who shares her locker.  Elise is bullied by this girl and starts missing the bus so she doesn’t have to go to school.  In the meantime, Elise turns twelve and receives her annual note on her birthday.  Her father, who passed away when she was very young, has left her a legacy in the rooms that he prepared for her before he died.  She discovers the treasure room by room and learns a little more about herself as she does so.

My Thoughts: I read this book because I had a student who absolutely raved about it.  That made it move to the top of the to-read pile.  Let me just start by saying that having lost my father at thirteen, this type of story is much more likely to make me weepy than other people.  I was tearing up throughout the book because of the touching ways the adults in the book interacted with this young girl.  I was able to feel for Elise throughout the book, and wanted to reach out and help her.  I loved the details of the rooms her father left for her.  What an incredible treasure it would be to be able to learn from your father even though he is long gone.  She finds out so much about both of her deceased parents and learns to love her aunt and uncle even more throughout the process.  This is a beautiful story about treasuring life and loving your friends and family.  I would recommend this one to kids and adults grade 5 and up.

5 Stars 

It’s Monday! What are you reading? 2/18

This weekly meme is hosted by the lovely ladies at Teach Mentor Texts.  Head over there for more great ideas of kid literature and young adult books to add to your TBR.

This was a very busy week for me.  I volunteered to be the Student Council advisor this year so my week was filled with way too many hours of helping sort out the flowergram and candygram sale for Valentine’s Day.  So, this weekend I did a read-a-thon of sorts because I wanted to take the weekend off.

Books I Finished This Week:

Book Love by Penny Kittle is a must-read for all teachers of reading, especially middle school and high school teachers.  I was able to immediately tweak some of my procedures to incorporate some of the author’s amazing ideas.  I really appreciated the way that Kittle gave those of us that believe in reader’s workshop some solid reasons to continue to fight for the importance of independent reading and student choice.

This was a really cute picture book.  I thoroughly enjoyed it and would recommend it for students in grades 1-4.

October Mourning: A Song for Matthew Shepard is an incredibly powerful book.  A novel-in-verse written in the memory of a young college student who was brutally murdered in the nineties, this is a riveting read.  I love how the author experimented with different types of poems and then explained those forms at the end of the book.  Another thing I liked about this book is how the author experimented with perspective and wrote poems from the point of view of the inanimate objects involved in the story.  This is a book that all teens and adults should read.

This is a very interesting book.  I loved how the authors played with the concept of a graphic novel but used photographs and postcards to tell the story.  It is a modern love story and immediately made me want to read it again to catch all the nuances in the story.

This is another great graphic novel.  It gives students a perspective into the early career of Ameila Earhart.  Students in grades 4 and up would enjoy this one.

This one was deserving of all the awards it received this year.  It reads as a spy story and tells the fascinating story of the race to develop a nuclear weapon.  I know there are students in my classroom that will be lining up to get ahold of this one.

I loved Dodger by Terry Pratchett.  It was so much fun getting an imaginary glimpse into the life of a beloved character.  This was part-mystery and part life story a la Charles Dickens.  It made me want to dig out the Dickens stories I haven’t read in many years.  I would highly recommend this one especially to English literature nerds like me 🙂

Books I Am Currently Reading:

I am listening to The Selection by Kiera Cass and really enjoying it.  I am also reading You Gotta BE the Book by Jeffrey Wilhelm.  I enjoyed his presentations at the conference I went to and am really curious about the things he has to say in his books.  This one is really full of research and it is fascinating to read about what he discovered by studying his students who were avid readers.  I hope that there are more practical suggestions later in the book.

What’s Next:

I will be reading Period 8 this week for sure.  Other than that, I am not sure what I will grab off the shelf.  I have a couple Walter Dean Myers books that I want to read so I can get them to school and they usually go quickly so those may be the next picks.  I also have Grave Mercy which I am excited to read so I might start that one.  I also have a pile of professional books to get to.  I most likely will read Notice and Note if I get done with the Wilhelm book.   Really, I will just play it by ear as always…we shall see next week.